Sunday, October 14, 2012

600 Applicants, 40 Slots...Would You Pick Me?

The following is my personal statement for my application for admission into the Doctorate of Physical Therapy program at Old Dominion University and Virginia Commonwealth University.  Would you pick me?  Constructive criticism welcomed!


  • Describe your decision making process in choosing physical therapy as a career choice versus other health care careers.
The first time I saw Mrs. Sullivan I was still a patient myself, rehabilitating from extensive shoulder surgery.  She was a 95-year-old woman who came for physical therapy after a frightening fall.   Her deeply wrinkled face and failing mind and body belied the wealth of knowledge she had accumulated throughout her years, but her crystal clear blue eyes told of times she could remember and the wisdom within.  For several weeks I watched a physical therapist work with her patient, whom we respectfully referred to as Miss Virginia, as I went through my own exercises.  I watched her struggle to lift the weight of her body from sitting to standing and work hard to make her foot move in the direction her therapist requested.  I grew to care about Miss Virginia deeply and something clicked, excitement!  My marine biology degree was relegated to the distant past, I was no longer content to be “just” a mom, and I knew.  I started volunteering at the physical therapy office the next day.  I came in for my appointment and volunteered after I finished my own treatment. 
My first regular patient was Miss Virginia.  I quickly learned that while her memory was failing, her wit was not.  She had a penchant for making me blush as I helped her count the repetitions for her exercises.   I worked with Miss Virginia over the course of several months.  Each time she came in smiling and looking at me as if she knew she should be able to place my face.  Each time she admitted she couldn’t remember why she was there, and I would tell her about all the things she had been doing.  In the end her mind never did remember, but her muscles did.  On Miss Virginia’s graduation day I felt my heart spill over with pride and admiration as she went from sit to stand five times without using her arms for support.  Success!
            Mr. Armstrong had Parkinson’s disease and came for physical therapy concerned about his lack of balance and difficulty walking.  Once a very athletic man, you could read the frustration, but also determination, on his face.  He practiced walking and foot flexion exercises.  We walked up and down the hallway over and over again, me getting in his way; he forced to change his gate to avoid hitting me.  Then we added in singing a song off cadence with his walking.  The more he progressed, the more I became fascinated by the neurological side of physical therapy.  One day he came in, obviously excited, and shared an experience he’d had.  He noticed his gate was most sloppy at home and one day, in the kitchen, felt a shift in his walking and was able to focus and corrected it.  There was that feeling again.  I was so proud to be a part of his success. 
            I worked with Miss Trudy in an in-patient setting, and while the surroundings were much different, the experience evoked much of the same passion for helping people and being part of the solution.  Miss Trudy was diabetic and had other diabetes-related issues.  One day she was simply too weak to make it the few steps to the bathroom, and her legs failed half way there.  She was forced to have a BM in the middle of the room with half a dozen people looking on.  I admit my first reaction was to be a little grossed out, it was only my second day in in-patient, but that quickly changed.  I pictured myself in her shoes.  How would I feel, and how would I want those by-standers to respond? In that instance I realized my age and experiences gave me an advantage in that type of situation.  Instead of looking at her in disgust, I felt compelled to comfort her and do whatever I could to help her maintain even a shred of dignity.  I wanted nothing more than to support her and see her walking to the bathroom and caring for herself again.   
            My in-patient and outpatient volunteer experiences were filled with many similar stories as are my experiences working in and around the military with wounded veterans and soldiers.  The practice of physical therapy speaks to me.  I saw and felt the profound emotional affects a physical disability can cause, as well as the equally profound feeling of empowerment achieved by overcoming that disability.  I experienced it first hand with my own shoulder rehabilitation and saw that pride and satisfaction on the faces of countless patients and soldiers.  I know physical therapy is my future.

Thursday, December 29, 2011

Love is...not keeping score


This is a little something I wrote earlier this year for a friend's blog about what love is and what it means to different people.  I have been feeling so...I don't really have the words, but I adore my husband, and decided to repost this on my own blog.  Ridiculously sappy, yes, but hey, it's how I feel.


I take you to be my husband in good times and in bad, in plenty and in want, in sickness and in health…I promise to love and honor you all the days of my life.  Our wedding vows were pretty standard.  We looked deeply into each other’s eyes that day and believed every word we said, although I am not sure we truly understood what they meant. 

Next year we will celebrate our tenth wedding anniversary.  I hadn’t thought of our vows since that day until one morning last week.  We were in the shower.  Brian had one arm around my waist, holding my body against his, while he used his other hand to gently wash my hair.  It sounds romantic, maybe even sexy, but I was in agony.  It was 48 hours after my shoulder surgery and the first time I was allowed to take a shower.  If he hadn't been holding me, I wouldn’t have been able to stand.  It was at that moment, totally dependent upon my husband, that those vows came to mind.  There he was, totally devoted to my care for better or worse.  He woke up every 4 hours to give me pain medicine and replace my ice packs.  He helped me to the bathroom, got me dressed each morning, changed the dressing over my incisions, and put my hair in a ponytail.  Oh, and all during finals week no less, when his brain was already fried from endless homework and studying. 

It made me remember similar events, like my knee surgery, when he had to carry me up and down the stairs of our basement apartment.  Then there was my emergency kidney stone surgery, which left him with a three year old and a hungry screaming infant for two days, who had never taken a bottle…always there, always supportive, always devoted, rarely complaining.

Then I realized, since I have known him, he has never had surgery and has probably only been mildly sick a handful of times.  Wow, I’ve had it easy.  Brian laughingly chalks it up to his superior genes!  In my mind I don’t deserve such devotion and feel indebted to him for eternity, but he never makes me feel guilty. He knows that when his turn comes I will be there for better or worse all the days of my life.  

There are no notches on the bedpost, no bulleted list saved on our computer somewhere…no one is keeping score.  We approach each day with a clean slate, ready to do whatever it takes to uphold those words we so lovingly vowed to each other.  Now, after almost ten years of marriage, we are just beginning to understand what those words really mean.

Monday, March 21, 2011

Date 11 of 52: Living Room Campout

It's been awhile since we had a really involved date, so when one of Brian's teacher's gave an extension on this week's homework assignment, I jumped at the chance.  A little extra free time means date time!

We have been talking a lot about camping and actually just bought a bigger tent to accommodate our growing family.  All four of us have been camping in a little 2 person tent.  It was pretty big for a backpacking tent, but getting a little snug for a family of 4.  I had camping on the brain and decided to dig out the old tent and camp in our living room.  

I wanted to recreate the most important parts of camping; a bonfire, s'mores, the great outdoors, and good company.  Earlier in the day I gathered all the fixings for s'mores, a can of Sterno cooking fuel, decks of cards, miniature wildlife figures...

While Brian put the kids to bed I set up camp.  I used our large brown doormat to simulate the ground in front of our tent and made a "fire ring" with some large stones from the backyard.  I put a Sterno can in the middle of our fire ring and lit a match.  It was actually a pretty good indoor campfire.  It even crackled a bit.  I brought all our house plants into the living room and placed them around the tent for that outdoor feeling and scattered some rubber frogs, snakes, and lizards about the camp site.

Brian came down and I was using one of our fondu forks to roast a marshmallow over our roaring campfire.  He loved it and quickly started roasting one of his own.  We sat around the fire for awhile, munching on s'mores, drinking Shirley Temples, and talking.  Sitting around a Sterno can just isn't the same as sitting around a real campfire, so I was prepared with some other outdoor themed entertainment, the movie The Great Outdoors.  What's not to love about John Candy and Dan Aykroyd?
Raging Campfire

Our campsite was infested with snakes, lizards, and frogs!
We settled into our tent to watch the movie and munched away on other camp snacks.  I admit, in the end,  we did head upstairs to sleep in our bed rather than "rough it" in the living room, but we still had a great camping experience.

Date 10 of 52: Charades

Woops!  This date actually came after our Valentine's Day dates, but I completely forgot to post it.

Brian has a crazy work load, so I have been trying to come up with quick dates we can do for a study break, something to give him a break from all the seriousness.  I decided to do a silly game of charades. I told Brian to write down 5 nouns on 5 pieces of paper, and I did the same.  Then I put them in a box and we took turns drawing slips of paper and acting them out...typical charades.

Brian had no idea what the words were for, so he just wrote down the first things that came his mind.  Turns out he had cars on the brain, so I ended up acting out wonderful things like gas and steering wheel.  I, of course, knew what they were for so Brian got to act out things like swimming, flipping pancakes, and mountain.  Oooooo, I really went crazy with those ones!  He wouldn't let me take his picture to show off his amazing acting talents.

I have to say this date was not my favorite, but had us both laughing in the end, so I guess it was a success. Brian went back to his studies with renewed vigor, ok maybe not...

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Date 9 of 52: SPRING BREAK, Part 2

We spent just over a week in Florida and took full advantage of the live-in babysitters!  This time I chose a  place for dinner, again, just downtown from where Brian's parents live.  We drove Brian's mom's cute little convertible and just let the wind in our hair blow away all the stress of the day...dealing with two boys that were out of their routine, monsters!

The restaurant was right next to a lake.  The clouds were building, but the rain hadn't started so we took our chances and sat at a table out in the open next to the water.  We ate some of the best calamari I have ever had, watched the lightening off in the distance, and listened for the rumble of thunder.  By the time we ordered dinner it had started to rain so we moved to the next table over that was covered by a big umbrella.  That seemed to keep us dry enough.  We didn't want to lose our great view of the storm.

The thunder got louder and we talked about going home early since Owen is afraid of thunderstorms.  Brian assured me that Nana was good with storms and could handle it, so we continued to enjoy our dinner and a show.  Eventually the rain got too heavy and we had to move in under the restaurant's covered porch.  It was fun to eat outside listening to the pouring rain, watching the little Anoles(lizards) run for cover, and the water stream off the palm fronds.

By the time we finished dinner the storm had passed, and we took a stroll around the downtown area.  It is a rather touristy area so there was a lot of foot traffic even after the storm.  There was a certain magic in the air with the lights reflecting on the wet pavement, couples walking hand-in-hand, and little girls asleep on their Daddy's shoulders as they headed home for the night.  Corny, I know, but it really was so nice.  The only down side was the number of mosquito bites I received while at dinner, all on my ankles and tops of my feet!  Holy itch!

Once again we came home to two sleeping little boys who had miraculously turned back into sweet little angels.  Thank you again, Nana!

Date 8 of 52: SPRING BREAK!

We have been a bit behind on dates, NOT GIVING UP, just behind.  We found the perfect opportunity to catch up on a couple dates during Brian's spring break.  Plus, we got to go on "real" dates.  We went to Florida to visit Brian's family.  Family = Babysitters!

It was Brian's turn, and he chose a little wine bar in downtown Celebration, Florida.  The weather was warm, but not too hot.  We sat at a table out front on the side walk and enjoyed a glass of wine as we watched people and their dogs walking by.  I absolutely love people watching, so it was a really enjoyable relaxing time.  We continued with a light dinner and somewhat heavy conversation.  Maybe deep is a better word.  Heavy has a negative connotation in my mind.  It wasn't our goal to talk about our fundamental beliefs or anything, but it turned out to be a great reminder of how well suited we are for each other.  Anyway,  by the time we were finished with diner it was getting a little cold so we decided to head somewhere else a little warmer for dessert.

We ended up at  Celebration Tavern.  They had big heat discs out on their patio so we sat under one and did some more people watching.  As we were leaving we saw Brian's cousin sitting at the bar and decided to stay a little longer to chat with her.  It was great to catch up with family and have a good laugh.

When we got home, the boys were in bed.  We sneaked into their bedroom and kissed their little heads good night.  Ahhhhh, a very nice evening.  Thank you, Nana!

Monday, February 21, 2011

Date 7 of 52: Relax

Our seventh date was actually on the same night as our sixth date.  Brian didn't know I had a date planned and snuck out to set up the ice cream sundaes while I was putting the kids to bed.  Once they were finally asleep, my date started...a massage at Spa Josefina (my name in my high school Spanish classes).

With Brian's crazy studying schedule and our crazy night with out-of-control boys, I thought this date was perfect.  We both needed to relax and just let all the tension fly away.  I put blankets on the floor, bumped up the thermostat so it would be warmer, got out the lavender massage oil, and had towels to use as drapes.  I greeted Brian at the door, introduced myself and asked if he had any areas that he would like me to concentrate on.  I tried to recreate the questions I usually get asked when I go in for a full body massage.  Then I told him to get under the towels and let me know when he was ready.  It was fun to play at the part of being a professional masseuse.

Well the date was a success.  Brian was just about asleep when I finished and very relaxed.  He decided to return the favor and gave me a dynamite massage.  Then we both floated off into lavender scented oblivion, ahhhhhh sleep.